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Wednesday, May 22, 2019

Friend ???

It would appear that my former friend, the one who always made plans and then would go with someone else for better plans, not even letting me know. I had a name for it, but I can’t think of it. 

She’s in a different place now. She was in a bad accident with her dad 2 weeks ago. (She signed with my attorney today.) Her Dad was driving a Civic and they got hit by an SUV going about 50 miles an hour (per ER staff who estimated based on her and her dad’s injuries.) They were turning when they got slammed into and were pushed into a brick sign. The driver admitted fault and that she never braked.

She’s engaged to my sister in law now. Has been for awhile. The 4 of us have had lunch twice since the accident. She friended me on Facebook today.

When I say different place, I mean DIFFERENT place, as in mentally. She hasn’t held a job for years. It’s all very vague what her diagnosis is when my sister in law talks about it, but based on my professional opinion (as someone who has managed 3 family members with mental illnesses) I would say depression, general anxiety, social anxiety, and more I’m sure.

Based on her different place I’m fairly certain she no longer makes plans based on the best offer and doesn’t let the other options know. I could be wrong, but if I am, I’m not going to be the one that doesn’t make the cut. I’m not playing that game. That decision is based not only on how rude and how that’s not friend behavior, but also based on my medical issues. It takes a lot to get ready to go out, versus staying in. If I’m not going out I’d rather just not get ready to go out.

We’ll see how this plays out. 

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